Really??

So apparently I'm really stupid. And I agree. I believed him and his lies for years, and then I stopped believing. When I stopped believing he left for another woman, even though they're "just friends" or "roommates" with whom I found out tonight is WAAAAAYYYYYY more than both!! Because she called me!! And guess where my wedding ring mysteriously turned up? At their house. And guess who was supposed to be getting a ring soon, 'from a pawn shop, but it needs to be sized because its too big', of course? It couldn't be mine, right? Yeah, except that when she sent me a picture, it was MY ring! Why wouldn't I listen to anybody before? The last few months he hasn't been able to pull the wool over my eyes, so when people told me the last few months, I wasn't surprised by anything, except my ring. That really shocked me. Who steals a wedding ring from the woman they SAY they want to work things out with, just so they can move in with the girlfriend, and give her the wedding ring?! A very expensive ring, that I paid for! The whole 'I never wanted to hurt you' thing is crap. He lead me to believe he wanted to be with me, not her, because he didn't want to hurt me? More like he didn't want to lose this option in case she turned out to be nuts! And if she stays with him after all of this, she is nuts! And she actually told me she wanted to be a part of my son's life. Like hell, I say! I feel really stupid to have been sucked in by all of his lies. Even the kids don't like him. I had to beg them to play nice and talk to him on their birthday. Some birthday, talking to a father you can't stand? Sure shows they love me though. I love my little monsters, no matter how frustrating they can be. They can really step up when I need them to. Even if it is after 1 am before they finally get to bed!

In store for another WONDERFUL day tomorrow! Wonder what lies ahead for me then.........